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Penis in Scorpio

topic posted Mon, May 12, 2008 - 5:54 AM by  Deep
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We were recently discussing a topic in scorpio stellium about dry spells and how long can you go on without sex. For Mars in Scorpio, i feel it oscillates between two extremes, the switch is either on or off. For me personally this is very true. How do my other fellow members of the clan feel about this ? And how long is long for you and would you ever consider celibacy ?
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  • Re: Penis in Scorpio

    Mon, May 12, 2008 - 11:38 AM
    I have somewhat of a Mars in scorpio (long story) but I never had sex before.
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      Mon, May 12, 2008 - 1:16 PM
      If this is honesty and not plain sarcasm, I have total respect for this ! So your switch is off... nothing in between...
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        Mon, May 12, 2008 - 1:53 PM
        it's true, i would not lie.
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          Mon, May 12, 2008 - 2:39 PM
          I have mars in scorpio ,and scorpio moon …
          But they are both conjunct uranus so i have speedy scorpio energy sometimes.

          Yes its true, what you say about the swich,and fluctuate between two extremes.
          I mean about the sex outside of relationships, the one night stands. Couse in relationship,with my bf, i usually cant get enough of it, specially in the beginning.But than again my relationships didnt last very long, so i dont know how would i behave, feel in the late stages of the relationships.

          I have periods when i can be with different lover every weekend ,and periods when i feel no desire at all.
          The thing is, sex in one night stands can be passionate and fun,and it keeps you going out, its fun to live like that for a while.
          But it has no emotions and that part does get me at some point,couse sex becomes something you do automatic, out of habit,so its start to lose sense

          And also, it becomes something you do out of boredom. Or because you are sitting in a room with someone and you think, well, what else could we do, talking is boring.

          Its easyer to find a sex partner than a intresting, intelectualy stimulating partner. So you do the sex thing just to shut the person up,so you wouldnt have to talk to them. Couse boring people can be soooo exhausting

          But like i said, its fun for a while,but when it stops being fun, when it stops doing me any good i withdraw to my dungeon
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            Mon, May 12, 2008 - 3:15 PM
            I have my mars in mutual reception with moon, soo it's similiar.
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              Mon, May 12, 2008 - 3:45 PM
              What do you mean, where is your mars
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                Mon, May 12, 2008 - 4:12 PM
                mars in cancer, moon in scorpio. Mars rules scorpio, moon rules cancer. They are in each other's sign so it is like a conjunction. and then you have my scorpio pluto thrown in the mix.
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                  Tue, May 13, 2008 - 6:35 AM
                  Really?
                  But if your mars is in cancer then is in a sign ruled by moon, so it has moon undertone there. I know that moon is in scorpio but it is too much to say that it works like a conjunction. But of course, everybody chose what to belive in so.....
                  You probably can relate to this description because of your scorpio moon, it brings a lot of passion and scorpio energy by it self
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      Thu, December 17, 2009 - 9:48 PM
      i have been celibate for......15 years !!!
      yet.....i feel the urge to make love to 1000 woman in one weekend!
      and in that i would hope to find the one special one i could love soley !
      anyway....
      i just found out i was mars in scorpio and what it may mean!
      i feel a greater understanding about myself!
      ...hmmm?
      not sure if i put this submition in the right box?
      but i founf this flower lip/photo puting my mind in extacy!
      :)

      i wonder if thats a mars/scorpio thing???
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    • Re: Penis in Scorpio

      Tue, September 30, 2008 - 8:48 AM
      2012?
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        Tue, September 30, 2008 - 8:50 AM
        and believe me, there are other choices.
        just as you could choose to quit posting reams of incomplete and incoherent bullshit
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          Thu, October 16, 2008 - 1:13 PM
          stevo they are incoherent

          the RTRRR people have a web site,,they get you in there and your virus

          in your computor will go up


          they are a cult and get you in by having beautiful modelswith

          great tits,,,the troubles with tribe started about the time these people started showing up
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            Re: Penis in Scorpio

            Thu, October 16, 2008 - 2:19 PM
            Thanks for the heads up Sol.

            I did find this about 2012 on Wikipidea thought I'd post it here:

            2012 is claimed by some with New age beliefs to be a great year of spiritual transformation (or alternatively an apocalypse). There is disagreement among believers as to whether 2012 will see an end of civilization, or humanity will be elevated to a higher level.[14]

            Many esoteric sources[15] interpret the completion of the thirteenth B'ak'tun cycle in the Long Count of the Maya calendar (which occurs on December 21 by the most widely held correlation) to mean there will be a major change in world order.

            Astrologer John Jenkins has determined that on this date, there will be "an extremely close conjunction of the northern hemisphere winter solstice sun with the crossing point of the Galactic equator and the ecliptic", an event that will not be repeated for thousands of years. [14] [16]

            Several authors have published works which claim that a major, world-changing event will take place in 2012:
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    Re: Penis in Scorpio

    Mon, November 24, 2008 - 12:56 AM
    Hi,
    I've been celibate for the last 10 years, and I'm just coming up on 38. I've known other people with Scorpio planets that have gone for years without sex.
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      Mon, November 24, 2008 - 1:09 AM
      Hi again,
      Just checked something up. Mahatma Ghandi had 3 planets in Scorpio. Mercury, Venus and Mars. He was known to have been quite a wild man in his early days. Yet later on, he directed his energies into other goals.

      Marie Curie had several planets in Scorpio including Mars.

      Several historical figures with Scorpio planets, remained celibate. For a woman, it may have been a desire and wish to be taken seriously, during a time when it was man's World.

      Mars in Scorpio definetely takes some careful handling. If channelled in the wrong ways, it's detrimental. It's utilisng a power beyond conventional reason.
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        Mon, November 24, 2008 - 2:04 AM
        Hey Peter,

        Yeah i was pretty surprised initially to learn Gandhi had a mars in scorpio, but in a while it made all sense. Gandhi = force to reckon with. I read his experiments with the truth and you realize how sexually charged he was. He would let young ladies sleep with him on the same bed just to prove to himself he could handle it ! R.I.P. Peter you have started with something very interesting. Why dont we start with a new posts on famous Mars in Scorpio personalities. A summery of their biography , birth charts , photos... ?
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          Mon, November 24, 2008 - 5:53 AM
          Hi,
          That sounds good, because Mars in Scorpio is about transformation. The openess we have about sexual matters today is fairly new.

          I was walking into town earlier, and realise the lack of women's rights not that long ago.Women had to suppress a lot.

          I did a Module at University on Gender in Britain. It was about the attitudes towards women during the 19th and 20th Century. I was the only male in my Tutorial and got verbally male bashed every time.

          It did explore attitudes towards masturbation, and how women had naturally been doing it. Religious attitudes frowned upon it, and created further oppression.

          I read a book a few years ago on Women's sexual experiences from their 20's right up to their 70's. The number of people who'd never had pleasure from sex shouldn't be surprising. As people with Mars in Scorpio, the men have to appreciate that women were abused in some shape or form. They were at a heightened sexual disease risk if their partners were sleeping around..

          Female Circumcision still goes on. How would a Mars in Scorpio women react to Polygamy.

          Today's women have discovered and enjoyed the use of Vibrators and other sexual devices. Many have found it more satifying than being with a man.

          We can use that powerful Mars in Scorpio energy to discover and learn from History. Part of it shapes who were are today. It's also about overcoming struggle amd persecution. At the end of the day, we are all enslaved in some shape or form, and it's breaking away from those kind of shackles that's neccessary.

          On another note, Jimi Hendrix was a 17 Degree Mars in Scorpio. I have the same degree but I don't play the Guitar. Maybe I should have taken it up instead of the Flute all those years ago.

          Mel Gibson is a Mars in Scorpio. Bruce Lee had it. Susan Sarandon has one to. That lady is so powerful in more ways than one. I just heard her voice once in a movie called Cats and Dogs. She was the voice of a female dog, and just rubs this puppy's tummy. You could feel the energy just from that one scene.

          It will be certainly interesting to see what comes out of this.
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            Mon, November 24, 2008 - 6:18 AM
            Some Famous people with Mars in Scorpio: Jennifer Aniston, Billy Bragg, Leonardo DiCaprio (Sun, Venus, and Mars in Scorpio), Mel Gibson, John Goodman, Shere Hite (sex researcher, published the Hite Report), Susan Sarandon (Venus and Mars in Scorpio), Howard Stern, Oprah Winfrey


            jennifer lopez, Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York, 15 October 1959, robert redford, dustin hoffman ,eros ramazotti, luciano pavarotti, vanessa paradis, val kilmer, jack nicholson, john travolta.Grace Kelly, 12 November 1929 George Washington, 22 February 1732

            Some interesting people there. Robert redford was once asked how he felt being a xex symbol. To which he replied, "where were they when I needed them".

            Oprah Winfrey had been a victim of rape, and became the most wealthy and prominent African American woman on TV.

            George Washington is a fine example of the Mars in Scorpio determination and drive. His Mars in Scorpio was a force to be reckoned with.

            Jack Nicholson was born to play the Devil in The Witches of eastwick. Yet found true love for the first time with a woman in Something's gotta give..


            It's not all about sex, but creating a mission statement for life.
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              Mon, November 24, 2008 - 7:56 AM
              I've just been going through 58 pages on Astrotheme of famous people with Mars in Scorpio. I wanted to put down the names of some of them, who really stick out in History.

              Baden Powell - was the founder of the Scout Movement.

              Joseph Stalin - His ruthless Mars in Scorpio determination killed millions. Incidently Stalin the name he took, means Man of steel.

              Mao Tse Toung - He was a revolutionary political leader in China.

              Alfred Nobel - As in the Nobel prize.

              Simon Wiesenthal - Was a Jewish suvivor of the Holocaust. He went on to investigate and bring Nazi fuigtives to justice.

              Martin Luther - and The Reformation in Europe. That took some Mars in Scorpio energy going up against the power of the Catholic Church.

              John Wayne Bobbit - Now here s a guy who might have considered celibacy after having a piece of his manhood cut off. The only thing was, his wife Loreena, didn't dispose of the evidence well enough. Like his middle name, he was eager to get back into the saddle again. He became a Porn star for a short while then a Las Vegas Minister after that. Just goes to show us, you can't hold Mars in Scorpio back.

              Mars in Scorpio's sexual energy is immense and does have to be channelled into some worthwhile causes. In this day and age,we can discuss freely. During the Spanish Inquisition, every one of us, would have had to have gone underground. If captured, it would be have meant torture and being burnt at the stake.
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                Fri, May 14, 2010 - 7:12 PM
                As reknowned astrologer Kramer Wetzel (astrofish.net) gets a kick out of noting, every great American novelist, except for two (Hemmingway and Faulkner), had Mars in Scorpio. It of course is because the Mars in Scorpio can delve deeply into the understanding of the human mind, thereby creating characters that are vivid and real.
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            Mon, November 24, 2008 - 10:04 AM
            " We can use that powerful Mars in Scorpio energy to discover and learn from History. Part of it shapes who were are today. It's also about overcoming struggle amd persecution. At the end of the day, we are all enslaved in some shape or form, and it's breaking away from those kind of shackles that's neccessary. "

            Well said ! I think Mars in Scorpio can be seen as ancient warrior, which he/she has no memory of . But still carries that spirit and will thrive in battle, a cause or an ideal. You are right in how we take so much for granted. It took many battles, Inquisitions and wars to come this far. In this sense a lot of societies, especially in the western hemisphere have reached a stasis. Its very different here in India, where moved only 2 years back. Lots of parallel worlds co existing. Its great for a mars in scorpio. I think we are in our element when challenged or in crisis. We thrive on it.
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              Tue, November 25, 2008 - 8:32 AM
              Hi Deep,
              One of my favourite phrases is from William Shakespeares play Julius Ceasar. "Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war". It doesn't mean I want one, but to remind myself, better be careful what we're getting ourselves into. I respect the code of Chivalry and honor. I am no physical fighter, but being a Mars in Scorpio 3rd house, my mind is the preferred weapon of choice.

              Another important saying is the Chinese proverb. before setting out on revenge, you first dig two graves.

              Living in the modern era, we take so much for granted.
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                Tue, November 25, 2008 - 6:08 PM
                thanks guys, it's nice to see qualities of the placement other than sexual prowess discussed. Determination is one of the keywords. We have the ability keep our powder (and our peckers) dry, but once engaged there's only one objective. Surrender, defeat or any other humiliating outcome are simply not on our list of options. I like the line about 2 graves. Generally speaking, revenge is a pretty pathetic motive . . . defeat being an implied prerequisite.
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                  Tue, November 25, 2008 - 11:33 PM
                  I think being a Mars in Scorpio is going to test our metal in so many different ways. Not only can it provide great strength and determination, but an overwhelming sense of fear. It's the ability to investigate, and provide some answers to the root causes. WE do have strong sexual energy, that goes with the territory. It's recognising how much of the human persona is suppressed, and how the immense emotions become toxic.

                  Mel Gibson is a good example of Mars in Scorpio energy. He's a highly creative man, who exudes enormous appeal on the screen. Yet he's battled problems with alcohol. Rumours of a divorce have been circulating. Robyn his wife, is supposed to have told him, if he embarrases her one more time, it'll be over between them.
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    Mon, November 24, 2008 - 6:53 AM
    I can go years without sex with another person.... I think five years is the longest I have gone. I have sun, moon, mercury, Venus and mars in Scorpio. I won't have sex with someone unless there is intense chemistry and a deep emotional attraction. When I look for a partner, I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with..... That's probably Venus in Scorpio........ sex without deep emotions just does not work for me....... I would not call myself celibate though.... sometimes you have to make your own magic :)
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    Tue, January 6, 2009 - 1:29 PM
    yes. it is funny you should bring this topic up. I have mars and venus in scorpio and am extreemly sensual and physical in sex.
    It is as easy as breathing for me, as if I am pouring myself into my lover. It is 'sacred' and transforming. Very powerful.
    However, it is very exclusive as I am not a casual lover. I focus on one person and develop that relationship only.
    I do not fall in love easily either and have long gaps of years between lovers. 3, 5, 2 1/2.
    It is a blessing and a curse. I have infact considered celibacy.
    In fact, if I dont find another person that I have that connection with,
    I will be. (:

    • Re: Penis in Scorpio

      Tue, January 6, 2009 - 6:19 PM
      I too, also fall in between two extremes. The gap between the last two lovers I had was quite a gap (it was several years, and leave it at that.) I don't sleep with just *anyone* - I have to feel *something* for the person; some kind of connection. If I don't, I'll remain celibate. Sex is a sensitive (and 'sacred') thing for me, and I don't share it with just...anyone.
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        Tue, December 15, 2009 - 10:33 AM
        I finally broke the celibacy thing a few weeks back after 11 years. Just wish it had not been so long.
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    Tue, February 2, 2010 - 1:04 PM

    I didnt have sex until i was 30... spanish inquisitive education did its part.. but my MiS naturally overflowed that... its not easy for me to find a lover. Im intense I believe. The first couple I had was sort of a ninphominiac... it was good to brake the celibacy that way...great fun, lots of sex... but eventually there was no connection. Now im in a long dry spell which is lasting for 3 years by now ... sometimes is not easy :s
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    Tue, May 11, 2010 - 3:42 PM
    Yes, this is very true for me too. A couple of months ago I had my first what could be called "one-night stand." The next day I was hysterical, angry, brooding, jealous...I just couldn't take intimacy lightly. I wanted to devour him but he seemed sort of self-interested, and...ergh...it was everything to push MiS buttons, which I don't think anyone really wants to do!! It took me awhile to get over honestly, even though I wouldn't call it a bad experience necessarily. It showed me that sort of thing will never do anything for me. My advice is, don't take advice from anyone who does not have Mars in Scorpio! They just don't understand that sex is not casual for us. I tried to make it just "fun", as I have Venus in Aquarius which often contrasts with my Mars side! But Mars definitely overrules it all. Well, another lesson learned. Still waiting for my soulmate/husband/sexual partner who is COMPATIBLE with me! Waiting is hard, sometimes I'm going crazy from sexual frustration. A lot of people don't get, too, that the craving is so much more than just an orgasm or even physical sex. It's a desire for the complete experience...natural/freeing physicality, release of animal forces within, spiritual merging, emotional bonding. ARGH! Sometimes it feels impossible to HAVE it all, like the desire itself is more burning than the experience. But I haven't found the right relationship yet.
    It's been almost 2 years now since my boyfriend of 4 years and I broke up and it was not a satisfying relationship sexually, which was a major factor in our breakup. I know I'll wait until the right man comes along, otherwise it'll be another repeat of that experience I just described! Another thing I notice when single, I am either 100% interested in a guy or 100% NOT. And if not, I might even turn rude to make him go away. I don't think I've been 100% interested in anyone yet though, but even a very minimal crush on someone can make me get jealous and possessive. *sigh* Not the best qualities, I know!!!
    Glad to discover these astrology groups on here, very exciting. :)
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      Tue, May 11, 2010 - 6:36 PM
      Im 45 years old. Lost a husband.. It hurts, but time does help. To turn that anger upside down, try looking at that one nighter as a guy that helped you sort out what you don't want! Heavens knows i have had to. 'every broken heart is a shooting star pointing its way home to you"".

      one night stands serve their purpose (like if i haven't been laid for 3 or 4 years), but you have found out that you are a person of substance.
      I'd say thats a good thing to know about yourself. And you want to have substance, even if short. That says you leaned one heck of alot, and useful for you. Now you know what a pitfall looks like, and can easily avoid it. That jerk really did you a favor, in a twisted kind of way.

      my two cents...
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        Tue, May 11, 2010 - 7:06 PM
        I'm sorry to hear about your husband, that must be painful indeed. I'm glad time is helping to heal your heart. MiS bonds very deeply.

        I definitely know the lessons I learned that night, haha. It wasn't all bad, I was actually shocked at my reaction. Most of my planets are in air signs so I was being very rational and fun about it, really enjoying the attention from such a handsome, well-groomed guy, and then all of the sudden the next day I was a total and utter wreck, wouldn't go downstairs because i didn't want to see him, etc. He wasn't really a jerk under my usual definition of the word, it was more like my body and soul having an allergic reaction to non-intimate intimacy. We were both Aquarians too and I saw right through him. We had a fun evening though, outside of the bedroom I mean. lol But yeah, I've discovered a whole new, and very severe, allergy.
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        Tue, May 11, 2010 - 7:09 PM
        I'm sorry to hear about your husband, that must be painful indeed. I'm glad time is helping to heal your heart. MiS bonds very deeply.

        I definitely know the lessons I learned that night, haha. It wasn't all bad, I was actually shocked at my reaction. Most of my planets are in air signs so I was being very rational and fun about it, really enjoying the attention from such a handsome, well-groomed guy, and then all of the sudden the next day I was a total and utter wreck, wouldn't go downstairs because i didn't want to see him, etc. He wasn't really a jerk under my usual definition of the word, it was more like my body and soul having an allergic reaction to non-intimate intimacy. We were both Aquarians too and I saw right through him. We had a fun evening though, outside of the bedroom I mean. lol But yeah, I've discovered a whole new, and very severe, allergy.
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          Wed, May 12, 2010 - 5:08 AM
          Well, i'm MiS man and i felt what you felt. But not releasing that sexual energy once in a while can really turn you insane, especially when my moon is a bad transit (also in Scorpio)

          That being said, we have almost impossible demands (and we love to impose them on people, especially in the bedroom) and one night stands leave me hungry for more. That being said a relationship that isn't sexual satisfying is just as worse. The feeling of not being able to win is really saddening. I also loath people that talk about their sex lifes in a way that makes me want to tone down my demands just to have what they have. But i just can't.

          But being with another another MiS isn't for everyone, it was really rough and violent, real scorpions are cannibals most of the time. Sleep with another MiS and you will see my point.
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      Fri, July 9, 2010 - 3:20 PM
      "Still waiting for my soulmate/husband/sexual partner who is COMPATIBLE with me! Waiting is hard, sometimes I'm going crazy from sexual frustration."

      you expresed what I feel so accurately.... it is kind of counseling to find people with similar experience, thank you !!!!

      and wishing you a good and quick end to your waiting
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    Thu, July 8, 2010 - 3:54 PM
    This is an amazing post! I feel the same way as many of you. It feels like your searching for the right sexual experience. Not just any sexual experience,but at the same time you may feel driven to have sex. I went through a period of time when I was younger where I was celibate for about 2 years, it was after a huge break up with a guy I dated and lived with for about 4 years. It's just not worth having sex with some one for just the sake of having sex, there has to be more.
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      Thu, July 8, 2010 - 10:42 PM
      you are so right just sex isn't nothing we need deep feeling to have sex with someone. I just need to feel passion love to have sex with a girl but sometimes I couldn't think of anything els, I need sex to survive like food and I'm always hungry :):);)
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        Thu, July 8, 2010 - 11:45 PM
        "you are so right just sex isn't nothing we need deep feeling to have sex with someone. I just need to feel passion love to have sex with a girl but sometimes I couldn't think of anything els, I need sex to survive like food and I'm always hungry :):);) "

        I agree. You've got it.:-))
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    Tue, July 27, 2010 - 12:13 AM
    I am a Scorpio Stellium (Sun, Pluto, Mercury, Saturn...in that order) and my Mars is in Capricorn. Though I am not a Mars in Scorp I relate to this post quite heavily. There seems to be something in common between Cappy and Scorp at times....a control that is being exerted over desires. In my case, I have looooong dry spells (by choice) till I find someone that I have some type of connection with. If there is no chemistry, I cannot get it up. But, that doesn't mean I can't help myself out, it just means I prefer to wait and put sharing myself with someone on hold until I know that I can trust them completely and feel something other than lust. In the case of Mars in Scorpio, it sounds like something similar is going on. There is a sensuality that cannot be ignored, but if it doesn't feel right....it ain't happening. what do you think?

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