I have mars in scorpio ,and scorpio moon …
But they are both conjunct uranus so i have speedy scorpio energy sometimes.

Yes its true, what you say about the swich,and fluctuate between two extremes.
I mean about the sex outside of relationships, the one night stands. Couse in relationship,with my bf, i usually cant get enough of it, specially in the beginning.But than again my relationships didnt last very long, so i dont know how would i behave, feel in the late stages of the relationships.

I have periods when i can be with different lover every weekend ,and periods when i feel no desire at all.
The thing is, sex in one night stands can be passionate and fun,and it keeps you going out, its fun to live like that for a while.
But it has no emotions and that part does get me at some point,couse sex becomes something you do automatic, out of habit,so its start to lose sense

And also, it becomes something you do out of boredom. Or because you are sitting in a room with someone and you think, well, what else could we do, talking is boring.

Its easyer to find a sex partner than a intresting, intelectualy stimulating partner. So you do the sex thing just to shut the person up,so you wouldnt have to talk to them. Couse boring people can be soooo exhausting

But like i said, its fun for a while,but when it stops being fun, when it stops doing me any good i withdraw to my dungeon